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Try to Tolerate The love
Shocked by the murmur of friends,like a picec of mirror,I crashed down on the ground.Alas,I was told that three of my middle school classmates are lesbians.What’s more,the gross thing is that two of them cohabited together as couple.As if I was in the nightmare,I walked away leisurly,though I could hear my tears falling down and bumping against the earth.
This is the last time I regarded them as my friends,I knew.They are cowards,I thought.
This scene happened several months ago,just on the day I arrived at home in the summer vacation.Since the association of male and female has been the undoubting theme,more and more people consider the relationship as holy happiness,which could never be revised.However,things developed in a converse way as a transient comedy.I was perplexed with their impenetrable world,though,I admitted that my brain was filled with more or less prejudice and illusion.
“Don’t scorn them,”a friend demanded,”they really love each other deeply.”
I stilled.
“You know ,the deeper the love each other ,the more gossip they will face.And true love is boundless without confinement of sex and age.There are two gorgeous “L”in the world---one is life---and the other one is love.Try to tolerate their love and give best wishes to them.As for you ,this is worth doing so.”She exclaimed.
I nodded with pain.Nevertheless,I don’t know whether their love is true or not,and I don’t know whether I can accept the fact without apprehension or not.
From that time on ,I began to mind lesbians---a particular group of female who are living among us and in some aspects they have their own rosy lives.
Qiao,the most famous lesbian in China ,who runs a Maple Bar for lesbians in Beijing.She landed on the Sina Blog to show her world and persuade outsiader to approach them.She exclaimed that though laws have not been designed to protect them and their marriage,but their love is sophisticated emotion,which is nothing to do with the morality.She and “her wife”tried to have a baby by using test tube.Unfortunately,3 times they tried,and 3 times they failed.To a young woman ,frequent abortions may evoke acute consequence.Yet recovered from despair,they perservere at their goal and faced misunderstanding as before.
It takes all sorts to make a world.People have the right to choose the style of life,some are obedient to the traddtion and others may grope the adverse way to fight against so-called “morality”.Obviously,people even don’t understand what is really morality.As for them ,morality is the marriage only between man and woman,morality is the custom they ought to follow eternally ,morality is the way they despise the people with different ideology.
In a windy night, I dialed a unforgettable number,in that side a familiar voice came as “hello”,and also with tears,I said:”To love what you really love….”
[ 本帖最后由 Summer 于 2008-5-31 22:53 编辑 ] |
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